little things that actually make a difference to general life happiness:
•drinking lots of water
•eating fresh fruit
•thinking positively about yourself and others
•washing your face twice a day
•changing your sheets once a week
•hot baths with Epsom salts
•face masks using from things in your house
•sleeping more than 7 hours per night
•reorganizing your clothes, makeup, possessions etc
•keeping your living space clean
the slytherins making a drinking game where they take a shot every time draco malfoy talks about harry potter
also known as the night Madam Pomfrey had to save an entire dormitory from alcohol poisoning
ppl who aren’t in the fob fandom probably: wtf is a centuries and what is it doing on my dash
everyone is in the fob fandom
you have no choice
you can’t escape from the punk rock
This is in accordance to this post I made earlier please read.
Today, September 9th, 2014, my mother was again accosted by our Female landlord. Last night, September 8th, 2014, our Male landlord tried breaking into our home at 10:32pm. To make a long story short, we missed a month of rent (which we have receipts for) and our landlords claim we haven’t paid them for 6 months. In August (exact date August 22nd, 2014) We were told by our male landlord
"Be out by September 1st, or I am calling the police." This, in short, is not a legal eviction.
And it hasn’t been.
We received certified mail, and in the mail consisted of a letter stating (names removed for Privacy)
"Dear (name) and (name),
This is notice stating we (name of female landlord, name of male landlord) we like you to vacate the premise of our rental home, (address), By October 1st, 2014. We would appreciate if you both (name), (name), would accept this date of eviction.
(name of female landlord, name of male landlord)”
THIS IS ILLEGAL. In the state of New York, you need to go through the courts to get eviction papers. Yes, missing a month of rent IS premise for eviction, however it still need to be legal. In this state, each member of the house hold needs to be served with papers signed by the courts that also includes papers explaining what can be done for poor/disabled/low income families (which we are all three). WE HAVE NOT BEEN SERVED THESE PAPERS. WE HAVE NOT BE SERVED ANYTHING SIGNED BY A MEMBER OF THE COURTS. WE HAVE NOT BEEN GIVEN A COURT DATE.
In an eviction, we are not legally liable to continue paying rent and utilities, this falls on the shoulders of the landlords.
What I am linking bellow is a recording of half of the harassment that happened today. My Mom was recording on her own phone from the moment it began. I stumbled down the stairs to record when I heard yelling. I will write a transcript here.
(AUDIO CAN BE FOUND ABOVE; TW; YELLING, DEGRADING LANGUAGE)
land lord: For six months you haven’t paid me!
Mom: We were giving you money.
landlord: From April you haven’t paid me shit!
Mom: You got $200 (she’s speaking of utilities)
landlord: Oh no! Big deal! That doesn’t even cover the electric! (it does our electric is $130 a month) What you pay me,
Mom: And you get right around - I’m telling you, Don’t approach my daughter. (I am not out to family)
Landlord: Don’t you ever face me! Don’t you ever face me! (my parents didn’t start this, they were simply returning from an appointment)
Mom: Then don’t open your door!
Landlord: Oh! So it’s alright for you guys to go in and out, you give me agida!
Mom: Then you know what?-
Landlord: GO BACK TO ITALY. GO BACK TO ITALY. YOU GUYS HAVE RELATIVES WHY DID YOU HAVE TO MOVE INTO SOMEONE ELSES HOUSE?
Me: Keep yelling because it’s all being recorded.
Mom: I already am.
Landlord: Good! Good!
Me: Because it is so much easier to sue you, especially when you’re talking to someone who just got out of a law class for (meaning about) harassment. Good Job.
Landlord: Good. Go ahead. You’ll pay me $10,000 (this is not what we owe in back rent in the slightest) alright?
Mom: Oh, now it’s $10,000?
Me: (yes I was getting snarky here but I was falling into a PTSD attack) Oh honey, you don’t deserve $10,000.
Landlord: Cost of utilities! I’ve been paying utilities for $200 a month! (a lie, we pay cable and phone which is $200, she covers electric which is $130 a month) For 6 months. For 7, 8 months (as you can see she’s not even sure) Alright? Tape that too. Type that too.
Me: It’s recording, by the way.
Landlord: You got a 76 years old who (inaudible) lives on rent. Alright, yeah go ahead, living on the rent. And then you tell me all this?
Mom: We didn’t tell you anything. You opened the door and started cursing at me. (my mother has the full recording of this)
Landlord: I wasn’t cursing at you!
Me: WE HAVE IT RECORDED, GINA
Mom: We walked in (up) and you go “You guys are fucking liars!” we just walked up the door!
Landlord: BECAUSE I NEED THE RENT!
Me: When you’re evicting people, they don’t pay the rent! Read the laws!
After this, she slammed the door, and then she left her attached apartment.
In my mom’s recording, which I cannot at this time upload, she calls me a “Crippled, useless dyke!” which is why my mom is saying “Stay away from my daughter” in my recording. This has happened on numerous occasions.
I am trying to find work through ODesk, and I am selling off belongings for money as we are moving on maybe $340. We have another month here of feeling unsafe, having to literally bar our doors and windows, and keep pets with us to be safe. My father has end stage renal failure and is on hemodialysis. I have Still’s Disease, RA, And now a connective tissue disorder. My mom was beaten at work and is having knee replacement. We are drowning here. And if a dude can raise money to make fucking potato salad, maybe there are people out there willing to help three disabled adults SAFELY relocate.
My paypal email is: firstname.lastname@example.org
My gofundme I had running just for me but is now for this is found here: http://www.gofundme.com/adcb3k
I will write for you, I will do shitty drawings, I will interview you on my blogger, I WILL DO ANYTHING.
This whole situation is shit and I am terrified.
If you cannot donate, I completely understand, but please share this around. I have PTSD and this is ruining me I am scared to be in this house, but I am scared to leave in case one of them shows up.
Thank you for reading all of this. I am sorry to be asking for help again.
I MADE A NEW GOFUNDME AS THAT $490 NO LONGER EXISTS AS I USED IT TO KEEP US HERE A MONTH LONGER
please reblog with the updated information. please share. just. please.
The saddest word
in the whole wide world
is the word almost.
He was almost in love.
She was almost good for him.
He almost stopped her.
She almost waited.
He almost lived.
They almost made it.
The End of Summer (Yasujiro Ozu, 1961)
Elizabeth Taylor and Montgomery Clift in A Place in the Sun (1951)